The word mission comes from the Latin word for “send.” The word purpose comes from Middle English for intention, object, aim, plan. What are you sent here to do? What is your intention? Knowing the “why” behind your work or any goal makes the “how” infinitely easier.
“Every person above the ordinary has a certain mission that they are called to fulfill.”
– Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
Test anxiety is rampant, for example. Many people quite naturally feel stressed, panicked, and complain about all the work and enormous stress of preparing for the Bar Exam, the MCAT, SAT, LSAT, GRE, final exams, CFA, ARE, EPPP, and a whole host of other licensing exams. Public speaking, auditions, try-outs, presentations, job interviews and annual reviews at work can elicit the same degree of anxiety, and some even feel this before a first date. This is called anticipatory anxiety, and is quite common, yet thankfully manageable.
When I treat the issue of test anxiety (learn more about anxiety hypnosis), I encourage people to take some calm, contemplative time to get in touch with the big picture…. Why do they want to be an attorney, a psychologist, an architect, a financial analyst, a successful student, athlete, employee, partner, or parent (oh, there are constant tests in that job!!!)? Crafting your own personal mission statement in words that light you up like a Christmas tree, that make your heart sing, can turn the anxiety into excitement. Why not be excited? This test is the key to opening the door to making your dreams come true. Post this statement in your study area, and even keep it on your person (in a pocket, e.g.) when you are taking that job interview or exam. Feeling the power of your own personal reasons can help ground you as you move through the obstacles and potholes on your pathway to success.
Many companies post their mission statements in their lobbies for customers, employees, and associates to see what they are committed to. This gives a sense of comfort and collaboration, and calls the company to uphold its values.
Knowing your purpose before any sort of test keeps you humble and willing to do what it takes to succeed. I always use this scenario: imagine if you have a club and can only accept one new member. Two people come to your door wanting acceptance. The first is banging on the door, rolling their eyes, essentially saying: “Come on, man, just let me in. This is BS.” The second person gently knocks and says: “Just tell me what to do. I’m willing to do whatever it takes.” Which one would you want to admit?
May your mission be fulfilled in this new year.
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“Courage is resistance to fear, mastery of fear, not the absence of it.” – Mark Twain