It’s Ok To Be Human
The pressure of performing at an extraordinarily high level over so many years, trying to live up to the expectations of others, fearing and hearing the criticism are pressures most of us cannot comprehend, is a dynamic we really cannot relate to we’ve been in that person’s leotard. It’s much easier to sit back and judge.
Working with professional and amateur athletes myself, I have had a glimpse into this world. Similar to golfers who get the yips, gymnasts get the “twisties,” where they lose spatial awareness in midair, losing control of their bodies. In gymnastics, this sort of disorientation can be deadly.
I have the utmost respect for Simone Biles, who in the peak of her performing years, is smart enough to put her health before more medals or pleasing the public. Legendary pitcher Sandy Koufax retired at age 30, choosing to preserve his left arm vs. worsening the chronic arthritis caused by his sport. While it is heartbreaking for us sports fans, let’s remember these phenomenal athletes are human, too.
People with exceptional gifts do not owe anything to anyone. Gifts are for the gifted to do with as they please. If they choose to share them with us, fabulous. If they choose to enjoy them in private, that is their right. I feel lucky that Simone has shared her amazing gifts with us for so many years already. And I admire her knowing her limits, and putting her physical and mental health before entertaining the public.
Further, Simone is exemplifying the meaning of being a team player. Good teammates know their limits, sit one out, and allow another player to represent the team and our flag. This is hardly a “quitter.”
Bravo, Simone Biles and Team USA!